Your Sense of Relevance

If you derive your sense of relevance or feeling of self-worth and importance from who you know, who you are close to, or who you work with, if you fall out of favor with such person or s/he ceases to occupy the position of honor that pulls you up in tow; or, worse, the person dies, you may have a difficult time convincing yourself thereafter how important you are in the absence of your human “crutch.”